Ray J’s estranged wife Princess Love shares pointed ‘gaslighting’ post after his arrest

Ray J’s estranged wife, Princess Love, shared a pointed post after the rapper’s Thanksgiving arrest.

The “Love & Hip Hop: Miami” alum re-posted an Instagram carousel to her Story on Thursday breaking down what “gaslighting sounds like.”

The first slide highlighted the “countering” tactic, with the example reading, “No, you’re acting a little bit crazy. What happened was — (completely new scenario that didn’t occur at all) — that’s the truth.”

The subsequent slide gave a template for “projection.”

It read, “You’re just trying to confuse everyone so you get to come out on top and control the narrative. We all know why you’re doing this, so just stop.”

The 41-year-old also gave a glimpse at her Thanksgiving celebration, from silly footage of her friend eating to a photo of her meal.

Princess Love could be heard laughing in the background of the video.

Earlier that same day, TMZ reported that Ray J was behind bars at a Los Angeles-area jail after allegedly pulling a gun on his ex and threatening the man she was with.

The altercation was documented on an alarming livestream, during which the Grammy nominee said “ain’t nobody taking [his kids] away… on Thanksgiving.”

The songwriter, who co-parents daughter Melody, 7, and son Epik, 5, with Princess Love, appeared to load a handgun in the footage.

He said, “I’m in my own house and if these n—as step foot close to this door I’m going to blow this f–king s—t away, bro. I don’t give a f—k bro, leave me and my kids alone.”

When Princess Love arrived with her cousin to take the kids, Ray J accused them of being drunk — and refused to give them Epik as the former reality star held Melody.

Ray J threatened to “shoot the f–k out of” the man, who has not been identified, and seemingly scuffled with him while repeatedly saying, “I’ll kill you, bro.”

In the distressing video, during which Princess Love called her former partner a “woman abuser” and “delusional,” a child could be heard crying and cops arrived.

According to TMZ, a possible domestic violence incident involving threats was reported around 4 a.m., with police officers clearing the residence and taking a suspect into custody.

Ray J’s rep has yet to respond to Page Six’s request for comment.

He and Princess Love got married in August 2016, welcoming Melody and Epik in 2018 and 2019, respectively.

The on-again, off-again couple have filed for divorce four times throughout their marriage, the most recent being in February 2024.

While they were spotted kissing at a Bow Wow concert in April, their divorce proceedings remain ongoing.